Making love is not the same as having sex, despite the fact that almost everyone considers it to be the same thing.
Truth be told, it’s hard to differentiate between the two. But there is a major difference and it’s hidden in the level of intimacy from which you can read the signs he is making love and not just having sex.
Sometimes sex is just sex. It’s sexual tension, attraction and lust and a couple is just enjoying the physical part without getting involved in anything emotionally deeper. It’s a classic hookup with no strings attached.
However, if you share a higher connection and a deeper intimacy than just carnal pleasures with your partner, you are making love.
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Signs he’s not just having sex, he’s making love. Whether you’ve just met him or you’ve been in a relationship with him for a while now , these signs will definitely help you resolve what’s on your mind.
There is a lot of locking eyes during intercourse
It’s a way of connecting and building intimacy with you. He wants to know that you are feeling what he is feeling.
He wants to know that you are enjoying it and he knows that your eyes and your face will tell him just how much.
The choice of position makes all the difference
If you are early on in a relationship and he starts with positions like doggy style or asks you to do a reverse cowgirl or any other position which prevents eye contact, he’s not making love to you-it’s just sex.
A man who wants to show you he cares will start with something simple like the missionary position or cowgirl, so he can maintain eye contact with you.
He knows you will feel so much closer during and after the act. In the case of lovemaking, even when you switch positions and he moves in from behind, he will want to show you his affection by kissing your neck or finding a way for you to look back at him.
Foreplay or a lack of it will tell you a lot
He knows it’s important not just for you two to be more intimate but to make you orgasm in the end.
There will be a lot of kissing
He will want to kiss every inch of you to display his affection. Someone who is into something more casual won’t give any emphasis to kissing.
He will take it slow
There is undeniable chemistry between the two of you and your sexual relationship is filled with passion, so by taking it slowly, he wants to ensure that the passion lasts as long as it can.
When a man has deeper feelings for you, quickies and pounding to get to the end result will not be in the picture.
He is more focused on your pleasure than his own
He wants to know that he is able to get you to come, so he will do everything in his power to make sure that happens.